"Fixing" Our Boys
"Are you going to fix his ear?" "Is there something that could help him hear?" "Did you know there's a great surgery that helps deaf people hear?" "If a surgical procedure would allow your paraplegic child to walk wouldn't you do it?" Being Deaf is unique compared to other differences such as being blind, unable to walk, having Down Syndrome. It's historically been difficult, even for Deaf people, to pinpoint exactly how it's different. I usually explain that the Deaf community shares a common language, norms, folklore, etc.; therefore they form a culture. But it's more than that. I think the real difference lies in acceptance. If parents have child with Down Syndrome, they must come to a point of acceptance . They can't change the facts. They are forced to accept what is and give their child the tools needed to become successful in their life. If parents have a child who is blind,...